Forgiveness isn't saying what someone did to you is/was okay.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you allow that person to continue to take up residency in your heart or mind.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you still won't hurt at times over what they did or didn't do. Forgiveness will not be easy, but it is a must to move on in your life. I know this FULL well!!!
Anyone who knows my past, and part of my story knows what I'm speaking of.
Here is what forgiveness does mean:
It means you become free.
It means you no longer allow that person to control you emotionally or mentally.
It means that you are no longer a prisoner to your past or past memories.
It means that you love YOURSELF enough and love YOU more that you hate that person or hate what they did to you or someone else.
It means that you know it's time to move ahead and allow God to heal your heart, your hurt, your anger, your hate, your bitterness, and your expectations so that you can live an abundant and free life. Not a perfect life, but a life that is full of joy, love and peace. Isn't it time to just let go of it all?
Don't you want to be free from the heavy weight that you hold due to the junk you carry. LET IT GO!!! You have a future and a hope. I decided a long time ago to let it go and choose joy!!!! It's a process and it will not be easy, but it is attainable, and it is worth it. We are worth it. Just wanted to share what was on my heart this morning. I know God knows who needs to see this and take it in.
Well said my friend!
ReplyDelete